Uncategorized • July 4, 2025

What My Son Has Taught Me About Slowing Down, Showing Up, and Getting Dirty

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

What My Son Has Taught Me About Slowing Down, Showing Up, and Getting Dirty

— Stars, Stripes, and Sticky Fingers Edition

Ah, the Fourth of July. A time for fireworks, freedom, and forgetting how many hot dogs you can reasonably eat before someone suggests a Tums sponsorship. While most folks are busy planning their red, white, and BBQ, I’m over here reflecting on something just as sparkly as the night sky on Independence Day: what my son has taught me—about life, love, and the power of getting a little muddy in the name of childhood magic.

Let me tell you, motherhood is the most beautiful messy thing I’ve ever stepped in. And that’s coming from a woman who owns chickens. 🐔💁‍♀️

Slowing Down: Because Fireflies Don’t Work on a Schedule

You know what kids don’t care about? Your planner. You know what else they don’t care about? That you had 47 things to do before bedtime. My son has this magical ability to stop time with a simple, “Mom, look!”—and suddenly I’m barefoot in the backyard, watching a snail cross the sidewalk like it’s a NASA launch.

Before him, everything was fast paced. Real estate deals, baking deadlines, even family dinners—everything had to be efficient. But he’s taught me that freedom is found in the slowness—in the messy popsicle drips, the mid-day giggle fits, and the evenings where the only plan is to lay on a blanket and count stars (or chickens, whichever comes first).

On the Fourth of July, the whole country slows down for a moment—to look up, to breathe, to remember. My son reminds me to live like that every day.

Showing Up: Even if You Smell Like Smoke and Watermelon

Showing up doesn’t mean being perfectly put together. Thank the Lord, or I’d be disqualified daily. It means being fully present—even if your shirt is stained with ketchup and your hair smells like bonfire smoke.

Whether it’s playing catch, answering another “why” question, or watching him ride his bike in circles for 34 minutes straight—it’s in those moments that I’m reminded: our presence is the greatest gift we can give.

On the Fourth, we wave our flags, light our sparklers, and show up for our country. But our kids need us to show up like that every single day—with heart, with honor, and maybe a little bug spray.

Getting Dirty: Because Freedom is Found in the Mud Pies

Y’all. My son doesn’t play—he conquers. He digs, he splashes, he climbs, he explores. And yes, he tracks half the backyard into the house with him. But he has taught me something I never expected to learn with a laundry pile taller than the chicken coop: freedom lives in the dirt.

Because when we let go of perfection—of the clean floors and Pinterest plans—we get to see joy in its rawest form. We get to join in the messy baking, the puddle jumping, and the cookie-face-smeared hugs.

A Mom’s Firework Finale

So here’s to the little ones who remind us to slow down and smell the sparklers.
To the muddy feet that stomp through our clean floors but leave the biggest footprints on our hearts.
To the ketchup stains, the backyard adventures, and the moments that don’t make the highlight reel—but make our lives rich and real.
Here’s to showing up, slowing down, and getting dirty—in the name of love, liberty, and laughter.

And if you need me this weekend? I’ll be in the backyard, barefoot with a bowl of strawberries, chasing a little boy with a sparkler in one hand and a s’more in the other.

Life, liberty, and the pursuit of sticky happiness. ✨

Want more stories like this? Follow along at @ChickensCookiesClosings where real estate meets real life—feathers, flour, and all. 💕🇺🇸

Uncategorized • June 27, 2025

💥Mom Life with a 6-Year-Old Firecracker💥

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

How to Homeschool When the Laundry Pile is Taller Than Your Kid
By Samantha @ ChickensCookiesClosings

Let me tell you something real quick. If you’ve ever tried to homeschool your six-year-old while simultaneously staring down a laundry pile that could probably qualify for mountain status—girl, you are my people.

The other morning, the sun had barely cracked over the chicken coop. Pickles was already yelling like someone insulted her mama. My sourdough starter was bubbling like it was trying to escape the jar, and I tripped—yes, tripped—over a pile of laundry that may have had a toddler sock in it from 2021.

And right in the middle of that chaos, my son—my beautiful, turbo-charged, question-asking, energy-pouring firecracker of a boy—looks up at me and goes,
“Mom, why don’t chickens wear shoes?”

Y’all. I had to take a full beat. Because… same question. Still don’t know.

That’s homeschool in this house. It’s loud. It’s messy. It’s slightly feral. And it absolutely does not look like those pristine Pinterest homeschool rooms with the color-coded bins and linen jumpsuits. We’re over here learning fractions with measuring cups while baking, shouting out spelling words over the sound of the stand mixer, and calling it science when something explodes in the microwave.

I used to think I had to have it all together to homeschool. That I needed a schedule, a system, a squeaky clean house, and maybe a PhD in patience.

But you know what I’ve learned?

Real life is the curriculum.

I’ve taught math while folding socks. Done reading time curled up in bed, one hand turning pages and the other wiping crumbs off my pajama pants. And science? Oh honey, science happens every time my kid asks why chickens lay eggs and not kittens. (Still not over that one.)

Everything becomes a lesson when you’re living life side-by-side with your child.
The laundry? That’s math—count it, sort it, graph it.
Baking? That’s science and home ec, all rolled into a cinnamon-scented hour of joy and stickiness.
And chasing the chickens around the yard? That’s PE and biology. Gold star for the day.

Some days, we start strong. We read scripture, talk about the weather, get our lessons done before lunch. And other days? Other days, it’s survival mode. I throw some snacks on a plate, we do a read-aloud while I try to find the floor under the toy tornado, and we count the day a win if nobody cried in the pantry (including me).

Schedules are lovely in theory. But around here? We follow rhythms. Mornings that begin with grace. Mid-morning meltdowns that turn into dance parties. Afternoons where learning blends into life and the lines blur beautifully.

Because the truth is, this homeschool thing—it’s not about replicating school.
It’s about raising up a little human who loves to learn, who knows they’re safe, and who sees their mama giving it her all, even when her “all” is running on cold coffee and grace.

And hey, that laundry pile? It’ll still be there tomorrow. But so will the sweet, fleeting, firecracker moments when your kid asks if worms have birthdays and stares at you like you hold the secrets of the universe.

You don’t have to have it all together to give your child an incredible education.
You just have to be willing to show up—messy, tired, human—and love them through the learning.

So if today didn’t go as planned, if the lesson got skipped or the dishes didn’t get done or the chickens ran across your Zoom call while you were talking to a client… welcome to the club. You’re in good company.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I just heard a crash in the kitchen and I’m pretty sure that means science class has begun—again.

P.S. Got a homeschool survival tip or a laundry confession to share? Drop it in the comments. Let’s lift each other up—and maybe fold a towel or two while we’re at it.

#ChickensCookiesClosings #HomeschoolMama #RealEstateWithHeart #FirecrackerLife #HeartsAndHandsBaking #MomLifeUnfiltered

Uncategorized • June 20, 2025

Can You Really Homestead on Less Than 5 Acres? A Realistic Look

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

by Samantha at Chickens, Cookies & Closings

When people hear the word homestead, they often picture wide-open fields, a tractor or two, a cow named Bessie, and enough land to get lost on. And while that sounds dreamy (and hey, maybe we will get Bessie one day), the truth is: you don’t need 50 acres, or even 5, to start living that homestead life.

You can start right where you are. Even if that’s 1 acre, a half-acre, or a suburban backyard where your neighbors can see your laundry line and your chicken coop in the same glance. (Hi, Vicky from next door. Yes, Betty the Ameraucana is wearing a diaper today. Long story.)

Let’s take a realistic and hopeful look at how you can homestead on less than 5 acres — and why small doesn’t mean limited.

🍳 First: What Is Homesteading, Really?

Homesteading isn’t about how many acres you have. It’s a mindset. It’s about self-sufficiency, stewardship, simplicity, and a deep connection to your land, your family, and your food. It’s canning tomato sauce in September, raising a few hens for fresh eggs, growing your own basil because the store version tastes like cardboard, and teaching your kids (and yourself) where food really comes from.

It’s not about perfection. It’s about purpose.

🐔 What Can You Do on Less Than 5 Acres?

More than you might think! Here’s a little peek into what we’ve done on just a few acres — and some ideas to spark your journey.

1. Chickens – The Gate(way) Animal

Start with a small backyard flock. Just 3–6 hens (but be careful of chicken math, its real!) can supply your family with eggs, compost materials, pest control, and endless entertainment. (Trust me, watching Silkies chase a grasshopper is better than Netflix.)

2. Gardening – Grow What You’ll Eat

Whether it’s a raised bed or a small greenhouse, you can grow a surprising amount of food in a small space. Herbs, lettuces, tomatoes, green beans — they all thrive in compact gardens. Add vertical gardening and boom, you’ve got a salad bar in your backyard.

3. Composting – Black Gold, Baby

Food scraps, chicken poop, leaves — it all turns into nutrient-rich compost that your garden will LOVE. It’s the circle of life, and yes, it involves banana peels.

4. Preserving Food – Your Pantry, Your Rules

You don’t need a cellar to store up food for winter. Canning, dehydrating, fermenting, and freezing are all doable in a standard kitchen. Nothing says “prepared and proud” like a shelf lined with jars of homemade pickles and jams.

5. Teach Your Kids – Homesteading is Learning

Whether you’re homeschooling (like we do!) or just want to sneak a little nature study into snack time, homesteading offers constant lessons in patience, science, hard work, and awe. My son can tell you exactly how long it takes an egg to hatch. (Ask him. He’s very proud.)

🌻 The Hidden Benefits of a Smaller Homestead

Small homesteads are actually a blessing in disguise. Here’s why:

Less Overwhelm – You can manage your land without needing a full-time farmhand or selling your soul to the feed store.
More Intention – Every square foot counts, so you get smart, creative, and connected with your land.
Easier to Maintain – Let’s be real: you still have a life. Dance recitals, real estate closings, and sourdough starter don’t wait for no farm chores.

And here’s the kicker: the peace, purpose, and joy of homesteading don’t come from acreage. They come from action. From stepping outside each morning, coffee in hand, watching your chickens scratch, your tomatoes ripen, and your child learn something beautiful.

🏡 From Homestead to Home Sweet Sold

As a real estate agent and a homesteader, I’ve seen it all. I’ve helped families find their “just right” homesteads — from cozy suburban backyards to wide-open pastures. And I’ll tell you what I always tell my clients:

You don’t need a farm to live farm-fresh.

Whether you’re on 5 acres, half an acre, or dreaming of someday, you can start right now. With what you have. Where you are.

💬 Let’s Keep the Conversation Growing

Want to chat chickens? Swapping jam recipes? Looking for land where your homesteading dreams can grow? You’re in the right place. Chickens, Cookies & Closings is more than a brand — it’s a lifestyle. One filled with good food, happy homes, and lots of love.

Let’s build your homestead dream — one step, one cookie, one egg at a time.

Thanks for reading, friend. Now go give your basil plant a pep talk and tell your chickens they’re beautiful. They like that. 🐓💕

– Samantha | Chickens, Cookies & Closings
Helping families find home, from the garden gate to the closing table.

Uncategorized • June 13, 2025

The Emotional Side of Selling Your Family Home: A Sweet Goodbye, A Brave New Beginning

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

I’ll be the first to say it—selling your family home can feel like breaking up with an old friend. Not the dramatic, flip-the-table kind of breakup, but the soft, tearful “you’ll always be a part of me” kind. Because homes? They’re not just walls and shingles. They’re memory keepers. They hold belly laughs in the kitchen, baby’s first steps across the living room floor, the smell of cookies baking, and yes—even that unfortunate DIY paint job that turned the guest room into a lavender explosion. (We’ve all been there.)

As a real estate agent, a homeschool mom, a homesteader, and a woman who holds family tighter than a jar of homemade strawberry jam, I understand this process on more than just a professional level. I’ve walked families through closings with tears in their eyes and smiles on their faces—because moving on doesn’t mean forgetting. It means honoring your past while making room for something beautiful ahead.

Let’s talk about the emotional side of selling your family home—and why it’s okay to feel all the feels along the way.

🏡 It’s Not “Just a House”—It’s Your House

This is the place you brought babies home to. The porch where your husband drank coffee before the world woke up. The hallway where your kid ran around in a superhero cape for two straight years. This house held your people, your seasons, your chaos and calm. So yeah, it’s not weird to cry at a for-sale sign. It’s human.

You’re not being “too sentimental.” You’re being real.

❤️ Saying Goodbye the Right Way

When I work with families preparing to sell, I encourage a little ceremony—not fancy, just intentional. Walk through each room and say goodbye. Take a family photo on the porch one last time. Write a letter to the new owners wishing them love and laughter under the same roof.

Let the tears come, but don’t forget to smile. Because those memories? You’re taking them with you.

✨ The Joy in What’s Ahead

You’re not closing a chapter. You’re flipping to the next page—and spoiler alert: it’s going to be good. Maybe this move means more land for chickens (highly recommend 😉), more kitchen space for baking, or simply less stress and more peace.

Whatever the reason, trust this: you are not losing your home—you are gaining clarity, freedom, and the next best version of your life.

And if your next home has a walk-in pantry? That’s called growth, friend.

🙋‍♀️ I’m Here to Walk It With You

Selling your home isn’t just about pricing and paperwork—it’s about people. It’s about honoring your story while preparing the path for someone else to begin theirs.

At Chickens, Cookies & Closings, I don’t just sell houses—I help families transition with grace, gratitude, and a whole lot of heart. I’ll hand you the tissues when you need them and the keys to your next chapter when the time is right.

Whether you’re ready to list or just thinking out loud, I’m here. With a hug, a plan, and probably a cookie.

Ready to Talk It Out?

If you’re considering selling your family home and your heart’s a little tender about it, I get it. Reach out and let’s chat—no pressure, no pushiness. Just honest conversation with someone who knows that homes aren’t just where we live, they’re where we become who we are.

📩 Let’s connect: 909.301.1107 or SamSellsDreams@Gmail.com
📱 Follow me on Instagram @ChickensCookiesClosings for more heart, home, and humor.

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Remember: You’re not letting go of your memories. You’re carrying them into your next season—with joy, purpose, and maybe just a little extra closet space.

With love and listings,
Samantha
Your Homesteading Realtor with Heart

Uncategorized • June 6, 2025

🌻 The Hidden Blessings (and Costs) of Moving from Suburbia to a Homestead

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

🌻 The Hidden Blessings (and Costs) of Moving from Suburbia to a Homestead

Because peace, purpose, and poultry are worth every penny

So you’ve been bitten by the homestead bug, huh?
You’re daydreaming about goats in the morning mist, fresh eggs in your apron, and trading your 9-to-5 for a more grounded, meaningful life.

First of all: WELCOME.
You’re our kind of people.

But while homesteading is every bit as rewarding as it looks (and smells), it’s also a lifestyle shift that comes with some sneaky little surprises—a.k.a. hidden costs. Let’s walk through them, with optimism in our hearts and dirt under our fingernails.

1. Land: You’re Not Just Buying Dirt—You’re Buying Freedom

Yes, buying land can be a bit more complicated than grabbing a house in the suburbs. You’ll want to look into things like water access, zoning, septic, and soil quality.

BUT—you’re also buying sunsets without streetlights, the sound of crickets instead of car alarms, and the freedom to build your own slice of heaven.

You’re not just buying land. You’re investing in legacy. Land you can shape, grow on, and pass down.

2. Maintenance: From “Call the Guy” to “I Am the Guy!”

Suburbia may have spoiled us with HOA lawn care and appliance warranties, but there’s real empowerment in doing it yourself.

Leaky faucet? Fix it. Goat fence needs mending? You’re on it.
Suddenly, you’re the expert—and you’ll be amazed how quickly your confidence (and tool collection) grows.

No more waiting on a handyman to charge you $150 to replace a light switch. You’ve got this!

3. Animals: Tiny Beasts, Big Blessings

Yes, chickens cost more than $3. Yes, goats are like toddlers with horns. And yes, you may one day find yourself nursing a duck back to health at 2 a.m.

But nothing compares to gathering warm eggs in the morning or watching your kid bond with a baby chick.

Your food has a name now (and sometimes… eyelashes). The connection to your meals becomes personal, sacred, and deeply satisfying.

4. Gardening: The Most Expensive Free Tomatoes You’ll Ever Love

There’s a learning curve here. You’ll spend money on tools, soil, seeds, raised beds, and a few (hundred) garden gloves.

But when your first juicy tomato bursts in your mouth and you realize you grew this from a seed? You’ll cry. Maybe not out loud, but your soul will weep tears of joy.

You don’t just grow food. You grow pride. Patience. Perseverance. And a pantry full of home-canned salsa.

5. Equipment: Toys for Grown-Ups

Let’s be honest—tractors are kind of awesome. So are chainsaws, rototillers, and those handy little wagons you swore you didn’t need (you do).

Yes, you’ll invest in tools and gear, but over time, they pay you back in saved time, DIY projects completed, and a good ol’ fashioned sense of accomplishment.

Every tool you buy is a new skill you’re about to master. Plus, your garage will officially earn “Homestead Chic” status.

6. Time: The Currency of the Good Life

Homesteading is time-intensive, no doubt. But unlike the hamster wheel of commutes and cubicles, this time is different. It’s meaningful.

You’ll trade office deadlines for:

Sunrise animal chores with a hot cup of coffee
Planting seeds with your kid
Learning to live by the seasons instead of a schedule

This lifestyle slows you down just enough to remember what matters most. Time becomes a gift again, not something you’re constantly chasing.

7. Learning Curve: The Tuition for a More Abundant Life

You will make mistakes. You will Google “why is my chicken laying shell-less eggs” at midnight. And you will learn.

But every mistake is an investment in wisdom. Every challenge is a step closer to the confident, resilient, capable homesteader you’re becoming.

You’ll learn more in one year of homesteading than a decade of suburbia could ever teach you.

The Sweet Conclusion

Yes, homesteading has hidden costs—but they’re not just financial. They’re investments in:

Your health (hello fresh air, sunshine, and garden-fueled meals)
Your soul (goodbye burnout, hello purpose)
Your family (nothing bonds like mucking stalls together)
Your future (you’re building something real and lasting)

So if your heart is pulling you toward the country, toward the simple, satisfying, sacred rhythm of homestead life—follow it.
And if you need help finding the right property or planning the leap, I’m just a message away. 👩‍🌾🐓

Let’s turn your dream into a rooted reality.
Check out ChickensCookiesClosings.com and let’s plant the seeds of your new life—together.

Uncategorized • May 30, 2025

🫖 Spill the Tea: What’s Really Going On in the Market This May?

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

Hey y’all!
Let’s take a break from baking cookies, wrangling chickens, and dodging Legos barefoot (just me?) to sit down for a good ol’ fashioned chat about what’s REALLY happening in the real estate market this month. Go ahead, grab your favorite drink—mine’s sweet tea with a lemon wedge and a whole lotta caffeine—and let’s spill the real estate tea. ☕️

🍋 The Sweet, Sweet Scoop (aka Market Trends)

Right now, the housing market is acting like that one unpredictable aunt at Thanksgiving—keeps us guessing but always brings something interesting to the table.

Here’s what I’m seeing as of May:

Home Prices: Still holding strong! We’re not seeing huge drops or sky-high spikes—it’s steady, like a chicken on a warm egg. (Which I know a thing or two about. Thanks, Felicia.)
Buyer Activity: Yes, buyers are still out there! They may be a little pickier, and interest rates have them sipping slowly instead of gulping—but make no mistake, homes are still moving.
Inventory: It’s still tight, friends. Think Black Friday, but for houses. The good ones go fast, and if you’re not ready to move quickly, someone else will snatch it right out from under you.

🐓 So… What Does That Mean for You?

Whether you’re a buyer, a seller, or just a casual Zillow window shopper (no shame—we’ve all done the 10PM “What if I moved to Montana?” scroll), here’s how to navigate it:

👩‍🍳 Sellers:

This is still YOUR market. Homes that are priced right, staged well, and marketed smartly (hi, that’s my specialty) are selling FAST. Think of your house like grandma’s famous pie—it just needs to get on the table and folks will come running.

👢 Buyers:

Don’t panic, but do be prepared. Have your financing ready. Get clear on what you want vs. what you think you want (trust me, a second-story laundry room is great until you’ve climbed the stairs 16 times in a day). And work with someone who knows how to write a winning offer. Wink wink.

🎯 Real Talk: It’s All About Strategy

The real estate game in 2025 isn’t about being lucky—it’s about being ready. You need a local expert (preferably one who can bake a mean chocolate chip cookie and handle a broody hen) to guide you through the process. That’s where I come in!

I don’t just list homes—I market them with love. I don’t just help buyers—I partner with families to find a place that truly fits. Whether it’s your forever home, your fixer-upper farmhouse, or your “just for now” landing spot—I’m here to help you get there, without the stress or the guesswork.

🧁 Let’s Wrap It Up Like Fresh-Baked Bread

The tea is hot, the market is active, and your dreams are still within reach. Don’t let headlines or housing myths hold you back. Let’s sit down, spill some tea, make a plan, and move forward—together.

And hey, if nothing else, I’ll bring cookies.

Ready to chat real estate with someone who keeps it real (and rolls her own pie crust)?
📲 Call, text, or stop by my site at ChickensCookiesClosings.com. Let’s make your next move your best one yet.

Uncategorized • May 23, 2025

The ABCs of Real Estate – Chickens, Cookies & Closings Style

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

Hey y’all! I’m Sam—homeschooling mama, chicken wrangler, cookie baker, and your go-to gal for all things real estate. Whether you’re a first-time homebuyer, a curious seller, or just like learning things alphabetically (hey, no judgment), I’ve whipped up a simple, fun breakdown of the ABCs of real estate.

Let’s turn the confusing into the cluckin’ clear, shall we?

A – Appraisal

An appraisal is basically a professional opinion on what your home is worth. Think of it like when I judge a pie contest—I’ve got to look at all the ingredients, how well it’s baked, and whether it stands up to the competition. Same idea here, but with houses. 🍰🏠

B – Buyer’s Agent

That’s me! 🙋‍♀️ A buyer’s agent represents you, the buyer. I help you find the right home, negotiate the best price, and walk you through all the crazy paperwork. I’m like a real estate doula… but with less crying. (Usually.)

C – Closing

Ahhh, the sweet, sweet finish line. “Closing” is when the ownership of the home officially transfers from the seller to the buyer. It’s a lot of signatures, a lot of smiles, and sometimes happy tears—and yes, I bring cookies. 🍪💼

D – Down Payment

This is the upfront money you put toward buying a home. The bigger the down payment, the smaller the loan. Kind of like when you buy in bulk—more up front, more savings long-term. #HomesteadLogic

E – Escrow

Sounds fancy, huh? Escrow is just a neutral third party that holds onto money or documents until all the conditions of the sale are met. It’s like putting the cookies in the jar until everyone has washed their hands. (I’m watching you, toddlers.)

F – Fixed-Rate Mortgage

Predictable. Dependable. Old-school—just the way I like it. This means your interest rate stays the same for the life of the loan. No surprises here, honey.

Want me to keep going through the alphabet? I’ve got G through Z locked and loaded, with jokes, insight, and that classic Chickens, Cookies & Closings charm.

But before we go full Sesame Street with it, let me tell you why this matters…

Why Learn the ABCs of Real Estate?

Because buying or selling a home isn’t just about contracts and comps. It’s about confidence. It’s about family. And it’s about making big moves without feeling like you’re being sold something you don’t understand.

You deserve someone who can break it all down, pour you a glass of sweet tea, and explain escrow like she’s teaching a homeschool lesson on life skills. That’s me, baby.

Let’s Close This Out (with Cookies, of Course)

Real estate doesn’t have to be intimidating. When you work with me, you’re not just getting a REALTOR®—you’re getting a partner, a cheerleader, and a woman who’s probably got chicken feed in one hand and a purchase agreement in the other.

Ready to learn more (or just want my famous cookie recipe)? Reach out. Let’s talk real estate—the old-fashioned way: honest, helpful, and maybe a little goofy.

Because at Chickens, Cookies & Closings, we do real estate like we do life: with heart, hustle, and homemade everything. 🐓🍪🏡

Freshly Baked & Full of Comfort • May 16, 2025

Faith, Family, and Fried Eggs: How We Keep Our Priorities (Mostly) in Order

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

✝️ Faith, Family, and Fried Eggs: How We Keep Our Priorities (Mostly) in Order

by Samantha at ChickensCookiesClosings

Let me just start by saying: if you think fried eggs don’t belong in a blog about priorities, you’ve clearly never tried gathering eggs in your robe at 6am with a five-year-old asking why chickens don’t wear pants.

Hi, I’m Samantha — Jesus follower, homeschool mama, hen whisperer, real estate gal, baker of things both sweet and savory, and a wife who’s madly in love with her man of ten years. Around here, we don’t just try to “balance it all” — we put our priorities in a cast iron skillet and pray they don’t burn.

Faith First, Always

Our lives are built on the unshakable rock that is Jesus. That doesn’t mean every day starts with a peaceful Bible study by candlelight (sometimes it’s more like reading scripture while flipping bacon and refereeing a Lego war). But it does mean that no matter what, our foundation is in Him.

We pray together — over meals, before showings, during hard days, and after joyful ones. My son may not know how to tie his shoes yet, but he knows Who to run to when he’s scared, and that’s a mama win.

Family Is Everything

In our home, family isn’t just blood — it’s chosen. It’s community. It’s people who know the mess and show up anyway (sometimes with casseroles).

I’m a proud IVF mama to my miracle boy, and I carry the memory of nine angel babies in my heart. Every child is a reminder of God’s plan and provision — even when I don’t understand it. Being his mama isn’t just my job, it’s my calling. Whether we’re homeschooling, baking, or teaching him why Felicia the Silkie hen keeps trying to hatch golf balls, I’m all in.

And Cory — oh, that man. Hardworking, faithful, and the only one I trust to do bedtime stories and not burn the sourdough. Our marriage is our compass. We keep each other centered with a healthy mix of prayer, patience, and playful sarcasm.

And Then… the Fried Eggs

Now let’s talk about the real MVPs: our chickens. Yes, Pickles, Betty, Reba, Bluey, Kit, Felicia, and Chauncey — you matter. There’s something sacred in the simplicity of gathering eggs, feeding the flock, and watching our son learn responsibility one cracked egg at a time.

Fried eggs remind me of how God works — turning something humble into something holy. They’re the quiet in the morning chaos. They’re breakfast around our table, where giggles and gratitude meet grace.

Plus, let’s be real: when you’ve got fresh eggs from happy hens, your priorities can’t help but align — at least until one of them escapes into the neighbor’s yard.

Final Thoughts From the Coop

Life isn’t perfectly ordered. Sometimes faith feels far, family gets loud, and the eggs are scrambled (both figuratively and literally). But we keep showing up. We keep choosing grace. We keep leaning on the Lord and laughing through the mess.

If you ever feel like you’re juggling devotionals, dinner, and deadlines while holding a chicken under one arm — you’re not alone. You’re in good company here at ChickensCookiesClosings. Pull up a chair, crack an egg, and let’s keep our eyes on what truly matters.

From my coop to yours,
Samantha 🐓
Faith-Filled | Family-First | Egg-Centric Real Estate Mama
ChickensCookiesClosings.com

Uncategorized • May 13, 2025

🌾 Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Homestead (And Why I’d Still Do It Again)

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

🌾 Things I Wish I Knew Before Starting a Homestead (And Why I’d Still Do It Again)

Hey y’all, Samantha here – your resident real estate girl with chicken feathers on her boots and flour on her apron. Between showings, sourdough, and Silkies, I’ve learned a thing or two about living the homestead life. Spoiler alert: it’s not always the dreamy Instagram aesthetic of chickens in sun hats and sunflowers in mason jars… but honey, it’s worth every muddy bootprint and crow-at-4-a.m. wake-up call.

Let me take you on a little front porch chat and share the real talk: the things I wish I knew before starting this journey – and why I’d do it all again in a heartbeat. 💛

1. Homesteading is Not a Hobby, It’s a Lifestyle

I thought I was starting a cute backyard chicken project. Next thing I knew, I was outside in pajamas trying to stop Pickles from laying an egg on top of a tomato plant while Bluey staged a prison break.

Homesteading doesn’t clock out at 5 p.m. It’s early mornings, late-night animal checks, and learning to pivot fast when plans go sideways (and they will). You don’t just have a homestead – you become a homesteader.

🧡 But here’s the magic: It roots you. In family. In the land. In simplicity. In God’s goodness. And that’s a rhythm I’d never trade.

2. You Will Fail. Often.

Your first garden? Might be more of a buffet for bugs than a bounty of blessings. You’ll overwater, underwater, or forget the dang hose is still on (ask me how I know 🙃). You’ll cry over animals. You’ll mess up your first batch of fermented pickles. And that’s okay.

🐓 Reba, my Rhode Island Red, once ate an entire seedling tray I left unattended. Was I mad? Yes. Did I also laugh until I cried? Absolutely.

Homesteading humbles you. Then it teaches you. Then it lets you try again.

3. It’s Not Cheap (At First)

Building raised beds, fencing, buying feed, vet care, tools… it adds up faster than a toddler spotting a snack 3 seconds after lunch. If you think you’re gonna save money the first year, bless your heart. 😅

But over time? You will start seeing the return – in homegrown eggs, in preserved food, in lowered grocery bills, in self-sufficiency. And the joy of picking dinner from your backyard? Priceless.

4. You Will Become “That” Person

You’ll start talking to your chickens like they’re co-workers. You’ll give a full garden tour to anyone who visits. You’ll find joy in composting. You’ll start saying things like, “These eggs taste happier.”

👩‍🌾 Welcome to the club. We meet at sunrise. Bring jam.

5. Kids Learn So Much

Watching my son gather eggs, water the garden, and say, “Mama, the bees are busy today,” makes all the chaos worth it. Homesteading has given him more than science lessons – it’s given him responsibility, wonder, and a deep connection to creation.

6. Community Matters More Than Ever

At first, I tried to do it all alone. Then I discovered the magic of swapping sourdough starters, trading seedlings, and learning from the seasoned folks down the road.

And that’s why I started @Chickens.Cookies.Closings – to blend my real estate world with the heart of homesteading and baking, and build community around faith, food, and family.

7. You’ll Never Be “Ready” – Start Anyway

If you’re waiting for the perfect time, budget, or weather forecast – stop. Start with what you have. One plant, one chicken, one step toward slower living. It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being present.

🪴 Plant the dream. Water it with grit. Watch God grow it.

Would I Do It Again?

Absolutely. A thousand times yes. With all the mess, heartache, and hard lessons – I’ve never felt more alive, more grounded, or more connected to my Creator.

Homesteading isn’t a step back in time – it’s a step forward in intention. It’s about choosing meaning over convenience. And that’s a legacy I want for my son. For my family. For my community.

So if you’re dreaming of chickens and chard and homemade everything? Go for it, friend. You’re not crazy. You’re called.

And I’ll be here – cheering you on, cookie in one hand, chicken feed in the other. 💛

Blessings & Biscuit Crumbs,
Samantha
🏡 Chickens. Cookies. Closings.
(And now, compost too.)

Uncategorized • May 10, 2025

Kid-Friendly House Hunting Tips: How to Make Closings Less Crazy with a 5-Year-Old in Tow

by Samantha "Sam" Nelson

Kid-Friendly House Hunting Tips: How to Make Closings Less Crazy with a 5-Year-Old in Tow

by Samantha @ Chickens.Cookies.Closings

Let’s be real: house hunting is already a rollercoaster. Now add a 5-year-old to the mix, and you’ve basically got yourself a three-ring circus… but with a mortgage at the end!

As a homeschooling, cookie-baking, chicken-loving mama in real estate, I know firsthand what it’s like to juggle showings with snack time, contracts with car seat buckles, and trying to find the perfect home while also locating the nearest potty in under 15 seconds.

But fear not, friend—I’m here with my best kid-tested, mama-approved tips to help make your next real estate adventure a little smoother, and a lot more fun!

🎒 1. Pack the “House Hunting Survival Kit”

Forget the diaper bag—this is the Dream Home Go-Bag. Here’s what you’ll want inside:

Snacks (because a hungry 5-year-old turns into a mini demolition expert)
A tablet or coloring book
Water bottle
Emergency stickers (the secret weapon of peace negotiations)
A small toy that fits in their hand and not in the seller’s flower vase

Mama tip: if it crinkles, squeaks, or explodes glitter—it stays in the car.

🧸 2. Give Them a Job

Kids love to feel important, and if we’re being honest—they are. So, put them on the payroll!

Let them be the official “Closet Checker”
Assign them to look for a “Perfect Spot” for their toys in each home
Ask for their opinion on the yard (cue the adorable “I can play tag here!” moment)

Pro tip: if they feel like they’re part of the process, you’ll hear a lot less “Can we go hoooome?”

🗓️ 3. Schedule Wisely

You wouldn’t go grocery shopping with a tired 5-year-old at 4pm (unless you’re feelin’ spicy).
The same rule applies for house hunting. Try to book showings after naps, before sugar crashes, and never during the dreaded witching hour.

And when all else fails…bribe with ice cream. That’s just smart parenting.

🚗 4. Embrace the Drive-Thru Showing

Sometimes the most “kid-friendly” showing is the one that happens from the front seat of your car.
Drive by the house first and see if it’s even worth the toddler tornado.

Mama’s rule: if you wouldn’t get out of the car for it in leggings and a topknot, it’s not “the one.”

💬 5. Be Honest with Your Agent (Hi, it’s me 👋)

If you’re working with a real estate agent who doesn’t understand what it’s like to juggle house tours and tiny humans—then you’re working with the wrong one.
I get it. I live it. And I’ve got your back like a mom with wet wipes at a picnic.

Tell me your schedule, your kid’s quirks, your no-go zones. I’ll handle the details while you handle the snack distribution.

🥳 6. Celebrate the Little Wins

Found a house without weird smells? Win.
No tantrums in the driveway? Bonus round.
Actually made it to closing with your sanity intact? Someone light a candle and cue the confetti.

Make it a family celebration. Let your kid choose the pizza toppings for move-in day. Make them feel like this is their adventure, too.

Final Thoughts from This Mama

Buying a home with a little one in tow isn’t just doable—it can be downright fun with the right mindset and a real estate BFF who brings the chicken charm and cookie comfort along the way.

So if you’re ready to find your next dream home, cart your crew into the SUV, pack the goldfish crackers, and call me. At Chickens.Cookies.Closings, we do real estate the old-fashioned way—with heart, humor, and a lot of coffee.

You’ve got this, mama. And I’ve got you. 🏡💛

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