Why Acreage Matters for Families Like Mine
From Chickens to Closings: Why Acreage Matters for Families Like Mine
When most people tour a property, they see the house firstâthe number of bedrooms, the size of the kitchen, whether the living room has enough space for their oversized sectional. Donât get me wrong, those things matter. But as a mom, homesteader, and RealtorÂź who has chickens clucking in the background while I negotiate contracts, I can tell you this: the land around the home is just as important as the walls inside it.
Because acreage? It isnât just âextra dirt.â Itâs freedom. Itâs possibility. And itâs value.
More Than a YardâItâs a Lifestyle
For families like mine, acreage is the canvas for the life we want to build.
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Gardens: Rows of tomatoes, peppers, and maybe even a few stubborn zucchini plants that multiply faster than the kidsâ Lego bricks.
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Chickens: My feathered ladies donât just give us fresh eggsâthey give my son lessons in responsibility (and a little comedy, because nothingâs funnier than a chicken chase).
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Kids Roaming: Acreage gives children a place to run, climb, and exploreâwithout a video game controller in sight.
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Homestead Dreams: From canning our own food to building chicken coops, the land becomes an extension of our values.
This isnât just about having âspace.â Itâs about cultivating a lifestyle where faith, family, and a little farm charm come together.
The RealtorÂź in Me Says: Acreage Adds Value
Now, letâs put my real estate hat on for a second (donât worry, the chickens approve). Land is one of the most stable, long-term assets you can invest in. Hereâs why:
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Scarcity: Theyâre not making more land. The house can be remodeled, but the lot is forever.
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Resale Value: Properties with acreage often appeal to a wider range of buyersâhomesteaders, investors, families, and even those dreaming of a private retreat.
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Flexibility: Want to add a barn? Expand your garden? Divide a lot down the road? Acreage offers options.
In fact, buyers are increasingly looking for âbreathing room.â According to recent real estate trends, homes with larger lots are holding value even when the market shiftsâbecause lifestyle-driven buyers are willing to pay for space.
Why Families Like Mine Need It
For my family, acreage isnât just a wantâitâs a need. It means I can:
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Teach my son that eggs donât come from the store, they come from hens named Pickles and Betty.
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Host neighborhood BBQs where kids chase fireflies while parents sip sweet tea.
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Watch the seasons change in our own backyardâknowing every inch is ours to tend, improve, and enjoy.
This blend of practicality, tradition, and future value is why I advocate for clients to look beyond the square footage of the house and really think about the land it sits on.
Closing Thoughts
At the end of the day, acreage is more than dirtâitâs where roots go deep. Itâs where memories are made, work is done, and legacies are built. From chickens to closings, I know firsthand that land matters.
And if youâre dreaming of a home where your family has space to stretch out, grow, and thriveâwell, youâve found the right RealtorÂź. Iâd love to help you find your slice of acreage heaven.
Because around here, land isnât âextra.â Itâs essential.
With love, listings, and a few too many unmatched socks,
Samantha đ
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Kids in the Garden: Age-Appropriate Tasks for a Wild-At-Heart 6-Year-Old
Kids in the Garden: Age-Appropriate Tasks for a Wild-At-Heart 6-Year-Old
If youâve ever tried to garden with a 6-year-old, you know itâs less Better Homes & Gardens and more Jurassic Park. But hereâs the secret: those little wild things are actually the best garden helpers you could ever ask for (minus the occasional worm funeral or mud pie thrown at a chicken).
As a homesteading, chicken-loving, cookie-baking, real estate mom who thrives on community and creativity, Iâve learned that inviting kids into the garden not only helps the plantsâit helps grow them. Their confidence. Their curiosity. Their ability to water the plants instead of the dog (well, most of the time).
So letâs talk about what a wild-at-heart 6-year-old can really do in the garden without you pulling your hair outâor replanting everything at midnight.
1. Watering (aka âHose Olympicsâ)
Kids love water like buyers love a low-interest rate. A 6-year-old can absolutely handle watering with a kid-sized watering can or, if youâre brave, the hose.
Pro Tip: Give them a âwatering zone.â Otherwise, youâll end up with one VERY hydrated tomato plant and a crispy-fried zucchini patch.
2. Weeding (but make it a game)
Letâs be real: most kids canât tell a weed from a carrot sprout. But they can pull dandelions, crabgrass, and the obvious invaders.
Make it fun: Set a timer and have a âWeed Race.â Loser has to feed the chickens. Winner also has to feed the chickens (because youâre no fool).
3. Harvesting the Easy Stuff
Big, obvious cropsâlike cherry tomatoes, snap peas, or strawberriesâare perfect for small hands.
Reality Check: Your harvest may never actually reach the kitchen. Consider it âgarden-to-mouthâ eating. Itâs organic, itâs fresh, itâs fine.
4. Bug Patrol
A 6-year-old is the perfect candidate for âSeek & Destroy.â
Give them a small jar and challenge them to find potato beetles, snails, or grasshoppers. Just remind them: ladybugs are friends, not foes. (And no, we cannot keep a jar of roly-polies in the fridge next to the eggs.)
5. Chicken-Helper Crossover Tasks
If youâve got backyard chickens like we do, let your 6-year-old scatter scratch, refill water, or collect eggs. Nothing teaches responsibility faster than realizing an egg in your pocket is not as strong as a rock.
Why This Matters (Beyond Keeping Them Busy)
When kids help in the garden, they learn responsibility, patience, and the wild joy of eating something they grew with their own muddy little hands. Studies show that gardening improves mental health, builds physical coordination, and even encourages kids to eat more vegetables. (Yes, even broccoli, if they planted it themselves. Itâs basically magic.)
And honestly? The garden is where the best conversations happen. Amidst the dirt, the sunshine, and the occasional chicken photobomb, kids get to see that growth takes time, care, and consistencyâjust like family, faith, and building community.
Final Thoughts from ChickensCookiesClosings
At the end of the day, gardening with a 6-year-old is like real estate: itâs a little messy, takes patience, and sometimes the results arenât what you expected⊠but with love and consistency, it always grows into something beautiful.
So let them dig, let them water, let them wear that superhero cape while harvesting jalapeños. The garden isnât just about plantsâitâs about planting memories that will last far longer than the zucchini ever will.
Sam Says: âA wild-at-heart child and a wild patch of garden? Perfect match. Just donât forget the sunscreen and snacksâtrust me, both will save your day.â đ±đđȘ
With love, listings, and a few too many unmatched socks,
Samantha đ
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Buying a Fixer-Upper? Hereâs What I Learned the Hard Way (While Stepping Over LEGO Bricks)
Buying a Fixer-Upper? Hereâs What I Learned the Hard Way (While Stepping Over LEGO Bricks)
If youâve ever dreamed of buying a fixer-upper, HGTV probably had you convinced itâs all sledgehammers, shiplap, and slow-motion montages where everyoneâs smiling. Spoiler alert: itâs actually more like stepping barefoot on a LEGO while juggling appraisal deadlines and wondering why the plumbing sounds like a mariachi band warming up in your walls.
As both a RealtorÂź (licensed since 2016, DRE #02007423) and a homesteading mom, Iâve walked this roadâsometimes in muddy boots, sometimes in socks on LEGO landmines. Let me save you a little pain (and maybe a few Advil) with the lessons I learned the hard way.
1. Not All âPotentialâ is Created Equal
The word potential in real estate is like the word fine in marriage. It could mean âgreat things are possible!â or it could mean, âprepare for battle.â
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EEAT Pro Tip: Always get a thorough inspection. What looks like a charming âquirky old windowâ could really be code for âenergy bills that make you cry.â
2. Budget for Surprises (and Double It)
That dreamy kitchen reno? Sure, itâs $15,000 on paper. Add in surprise electrical updates, permits, and the fact that your contractor also went on a surprise vacation to Cabo, and suddenly youâre staring at $30,000.
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Homestead Humor: Just like raising chickensâyou think youâre building a $200 coop, but somehow youâre three months in, $2,000 down, and Googling âchicken wallpaperâ at midnight.
3. Sweat Equity is Real (and Sweaty)
Everyone loves the idea of DIY until youâre up at 11 p.m., scrubbing grout out of your hair while your kid is building a LEGO skyscraper in the only clean corner of the house.
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EEAT Experience: Know your limits. Some projects are great for the YouTube warrior (painting, landscaping), but leave electrical, roofing, and plumbing to the pros.
4. Location Still Wins
You can fix ugly paint. You cannot fix a freeway running through your backyard. Always prioritize location over cosmetic âuglies.â
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Expert RealtorÂź Insight: I always tell my clients in Yucaipa, Redlands, and Oak Glen: buy the worst house in the best neighborhood, not the other way around.
5. Donât Forget to Live Your Life in the Mess
Fixer-uppers are a season, not forever. Youâll trip over toys, live with half-painted walls, and wonder if drywall dust counts as a new family pet. But youâll also make memoriesâlike your child riding their scooter through the empty living room or roasting marshmallows in the backyard before itâs âPinterest ready.â
Final Thoughts (From Someone Who Survived the LEGO Minefield)
Buying a fixer-upper isnât just a real estate choiceâitâs a lifestyle commitment. It requires vision, patience, and probably a few extra cups of coffee. But the reward? Turning âthat houseâ into your home.
If youâre considering buying a fixer-upper in Yucaipa, Redlands, or the surrounding Inland Empire communities, Iâd love to guide you through the process. Iâve walked the walk (literally, through construction debris and toy minefields), and I can help you avoid the biggest pitfalls.
So whether youâre dreaming of acreage for your chickens or just want a place that wonât break your toes at nightâletâs make it happen.
With love, listings, and a few too many unmatched socks,
Sam Nelson, RealtorÂź đ
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5 Things I Look for When Touring a Property for a Homesteading Family
5 Things I Look for When Touring a Property for a Homesteading Family
Homesteading isnât just buying a houseâitâs buying a whole lifestyle. And when I walk onto a property with a family who dreams of raising chickens, planting gardens, or even canning peaches on a wood-burning stove, Iâve got my homesteader radar on full blast.
As a licensed RealtorÂź since 2016 and Certified Transaction Coordinator since 2019 (yep, Iâve personally helped support 500+ closings!), Iâve seen a lot of properties. But when it comes to families like mineâhomesteaders, homeschoolers, chicken-whisperers, and cookie-bakersâhere are the five things I always look for.
1. Acreage That Works as Hard as You Do
Itâs not just about how much land there isâitâs about how usable it is. Steep slopes may be great for goats, but not so great for a chicken coop or vegetable garden. I walk the land thinking about where a greenhouse could sit, where fruit trees would thrive, and where kids could build a fort without rolling down the hillside.
đ Pro Tip: Always check local zoning (yes, even boring things like RM-72C zoning matter!) so you know if your homestead dreams are doable before you start planting your orchard.
2. Water, Water, Water
If youâve ever tried to garden in Yucaipa clay without waterâyou know. Wells, city hookups, irrigation rightsâthis is the lifeblood of your homestead. I always check what water sources are available and if theyâll sustain chickens, gardens, and maybe that dreamy row of sunflowers youâve pinned on Pinterest.
3. Outbuildings and Barn-Potential
A garage isnât just a garage for a homesteader. It could be a canning kitchen, a woodshop, or a feed storage zone. Barns, sheds, and even âjanky old structuresâ can often be repurposed into something amazing. (Trust me, my husband has turned some questionable spaces into gold with just a hammer and stubborn determination.)
4. Sunlight & Soil
Every gardener knows: location, location, sunlight. I look for open areas with at least 6â8 hours of sun. And yes, I always check the soilâit tells you a lot about what youâll be able to grow (and how much compost youâre going to be buying at Tractor Supply).
5. Community & Convenience
Homesteading is about self-sufficiency, but letâs be realâyouâll still need schools, a feed store, or maybe just a Starbucks when youâve been knee-deep in mud all week. I balance the dream of âliving off the landâ with the reality of âbeing close enough to town so youâre not hauling kids an hour to piano lessons.â
Why Work with Me?
I donât just talk the talkâI live it. I raise chickens, bake bread from scratch, and homeschool my son. I know the quirks of properties that work (and donât work) for families who want to homestead. My backgroundânearly a decade of real estate experience, plus extensive knowledge of land, acreage, and zoningâmeans I help families not only buy a house, but buy a homestead that will grow with them.
Because at the end of the day, itâs not just about a property. Itâs about building a life where your kids learn responsibility from feeding chickens, your family gathers around homemade bread, and your land becomes part of your legacy.
Ready to find your homestead? Iâd love to walk the land with you and dream a little.
With love, listings, and a few too many unmatched socks,
Samantha đ
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Farm-to-Table Recipes Even My Dirt-Covered, Selective Eater Loves
Thereâs something about kids and dirtâthey either avoid it like itâs lava or they roll in it like puppies. Mine? Definitely the second option. By the end of a gardening day, he looks like he wrestled a mud pie and lost. And yet, hereâs the miracle: my selective eaterâthe one who side-eyes dinner like itâs plotting against himâwill eat anything that comes out of our garden. Why? Because he helped it grow.
Turns out, when you let little hands drop the seeds, water the rows, and pull the weeds (or in our case, mostly pull the flowers I wanted to keep), theyâll eat the harvest like itâs candy. Suddenly, green beans are their beans, carrots are their crunchy treasures, and cherry tomatoes are garden Skittles. Itâs like the magic spell of motherhood: farm-to-table, with a dash of dirt.
Recipes Even Kids Dig (Literally)
1. Jeremiahâs âGarden Pizzaâ
Forget fancy toppingsâwhen your kid pulls basil and tomatoes straight from the vine, theyâll pile it on with pride. Bonus: homemade pizza dough doubles as an edible playdough session.
2. Dirt-Loverâs Carrot Fries
Slice carrots into sticks, toss with olive oil and salt, roast until crispy. They look like fries, but you get mom-points for sneaking in veggies.
3. Chicken-Approved Salad
Okay, maybe the chickens didnât really approve, but they did peck around while we picked lettuce leaves. Add cucumbers and a handful of cherry tomatoes, and suddenly salad is âfun food.â
4. Garden Popsicles
Blend up strawberries, mint, and a little honey, freeze in molds. Kid-friendly, mom-approved, and perfect for hot days when theyâre already sticky from running wild outside.
Why This Works
Itâs not about the recipesâitâs about ownership. When kids grow it, they glow about it. And honestly, it makes me glow too. Because in the middle of the chaos (and laundry piles), I get to watch my boy beam with pride as he chomps on veggies he once wouldnât touch with a ten-foot pole.
Itâs not Pinterest-perfect. The garden is messy, the kid is messier, and the recipes are simple. But hereâs the truth: food grown with little hands tastes better. Dirt and all.
âš Final Thought: If you want to turn picky eaters into proud eaters, hand them a seed packet and let them dig in. Sometimes the best seasoning is ownership (and maybe a little dirt).

Why More Families Are Choosing to Live Small and Buy Land (and Let Their Kids Roam Free)
Thereâs a shift happening, friendsâand Iâm here for it. Families are packing up their big mortgages, saying goodbye to neighborhoods where kids are more likely to bump into a Wi-Fi signal than a grasshopper, and moving out to land. Yepâgood old dirt, wide open skies, and room to breathe.
And I get it. As a mama, a homesteader-in-progress, and a Realtor, I see firsthand how families are craving a lifestyle thatâs simpler, slower, andâdare I sayâsweeter.
The Why Behind the Move
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Freedom Over Fancy
Less square footage doesnât mean less lifeâit means more of the right life. Smaller homes mean fewer rooms to clean (hallelujah đ), lower utility bills, and the ability to invest in what really matters: time together, memories, and maybe even some chickens. -
Room to Roam
A yard is nice. Five acres? Thatâs a childhood. Families are waking up to the truth that kids donât need the latest iPadâwhat they really need is space to climb trees, chase chickens, build forts, and get just dirty enough to drive Mama a little crazy. -
Simplicity is the New Luxury
Granite countertops? Lovely. But a sunset that paints the sky over your land every night? Unbeatable. Families are trading âstuffâ for experiencesâand realizing that joy isnât found in the walk-in closet, but in watching their kids catch fireflies at dusk.
Why It Works for Families
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Stronger Bonds â Smaller living spaces mean families actually see each other. You canât hide in the west wing if there is no west wing.
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Life Lessons Everywhere â Kids learn responsibility and independence through chores, caring for animals, gardening, and simply living on the land. (Trust meâcollecting eggs will teach a kid more patience than any screen ever could.)
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Financial Breathing Room â Smaller homes + land often come with smaller mortgages. That extra cash? Families are using it to build dreams, not just pay bills.
What Iâm Seeing as a Realtor
This trend isnât just Pinterest-prettyâitâs real. More of my clients are asking for land, even if it means scaling down on the house itself. They want space to raise animals, grow gardens, or simply let their kids roam free without worrying about traffic or cranky neighbors.
And honestly? It feels like a return to something weâve lost along the way. A lifestyle where family, faith, and freedom matter more than square footage.
Final Thought đâš
Sometimes smaller square footage leads to a bigger life. Donât be afraid to trade in the extra living room for a little extra land. You might just find the freedom you didnât know you were missing.
With love, listings, and a few too many unmatched socks,
Samantha đ
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Teaching Independence: How Chores Build Confidence (and Entertain a Busy Boy)
If thereâs one thing Iâve learned as a homeschool mom, homesteader, and keeper of too many chickens to count without a calculator, itâs this: kids thrive when theyâre given real responsibility. And Iâm not just talking about âpick up your toysâ (though thatâs a solid start). I mean honest-to-goodness choresâwork that matters.
And yes, sometimes that âworkâ means your 6-year-old is proudly hauling chicken feed in a bucket twice his size while narrating an entire dinosaur documentary under his breath. đŠđ
But hereâs the magic: chores arenât just about a cleaner house & letâs be honest, sometimes they donât result in that. Theyâre about teaching independence, building confidence, and giving kids a sense of purpose that no tablet app can compete with.
Why Chores Matter
Kids want to help. Sure, it might take longer, be messier, and involve approximately 37 more questions than if you just did it yourself, but the payoff is huge. When we give our kids jobs, weâre teaching them:
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Responsibility â They see firsthand that their effort makes the household run smoother.
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Confidence â A boy who can crack eggs for sourdough (with only a tiny bit of shell added in) feels like he can conquer the world.
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Independence â Each small task builds toward a âI can do this myselfâ mindset.
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Entertainment â Letâs be real, a bored child is a dangerous child. Give them a broom, a garden hose, or a pile of laundry to sort, and youâve got 30 minutes of peace.
Chores That Work for Busy Boys (and Save Momâs Sanity)
Here are a few hits in our home that keep little hands busy and little hearts proud:
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Chicken Duty đ â Feeding, watering, and even collecting eggs (bonus: the daily âwhich egg is the biggest?â competition).
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Laundry Helper đ§ș â Sorting socks becomes a matching game. Folding towels turns into âtowel burritos.â
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Kitchen Assistant đȘ â Stirring, measuring, and taste-testing (the most sought-after role in our house).
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Garden Patrol đ± â Watering plants, picking veggies, or pulling weeds (while asking, âis this a weed?â 4,000 times).
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Vacuum Champion đ â Kids love pushing buttons and making lines in the carpet.
The Long Game
Chores arenât about turning our kids into mini adults before their time. Theyâre about building life skills in the small, everyday moments. Jeremiah may be knee-deep in Legos one minute and knee-deep in chicken bedding the next, but both teach him problem-solving, creativity, and grit.
And letâs be honestâwhen you see your child proudly set the table (forks in wild, creative directions), you donât just see a messy table. You see a boy growing into a capable, confident young man who knows heâs a vital part of the family team.
Chores may take twice as long with little helpers, but the confidence they build lasts a lifetime. Plus, heyâentertained kids donât climb the curtains.
With love, listings, and a few too many unmatched socks,
Samantha đ
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Mom Guilt vs. the Dream Life: Finding Peace in the Middle of the Mess
Letâs be honest: âMom guiltâ should come with its own reality show. One episode could be about skipping the Pinterest-worthy lunch and throwing chicken nuggets on the plate (gasp!). The next episode? Forgetting spirit day at schoolâagain. And then, for the season finale, juggling work emails, homeschool prep, and wondering if your kid will grow up to tell their therapist, âYeah, Mom was great, but she really dropped the ball on my copywork notebook.â
Sound familiar? Welcome to the club.
The truth is, so many of us chase this idea of the dream lifeâthe spotless home, the thriving business, the obedient kids who never smear peanut butter on the walls (still waiting for that day). But chasing perfection often leaves us feeling like failures when life looks a little more⊠messy.
Spoiler alert: the âdream lifeâ isnât found in perfectionâitâs found in peace.
Mom Guilt: The Sneaky Thief
Mom guilt whispers all kinds of lies:
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If I was really present, my house wouldnât look like a toy tornado hit it.
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If I loved my kids enough, Iâd never need âme time.â
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If I was a better wife, I wouldnât feel so stretched thin.
But hereâs the truth bomb: guilt rarely comes from God. Itâs usually just shame in a sparkly headband, trying to convince you that your worth depends on your performance.
The Dream Life: Not What You Think
We think the dream life is a perfect balance. Spoilerâit doesnât exist. Even the most Instagram-perfect mamas have laundry piles hiding just out of frame.
The dream life is less about doing everything right and more about:
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Presence over perfection (reading to your kiddo with dishes in the sink).
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Grace over guilt (laughing when you burn the cookies instead of spiraling).
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Progress over pressure (celebrating that you showed up, even if it wasnât flawless).
The middle of the mess is where the memories live. Itâs where our kids see us as human, resilient, andâmost importantlyâreal.
Finding Peace in the Mess
So how do we find peace when guilt and chaos are running the show?
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Redefine success. Did your kids eat, feel loved, and laugh today? Ding dingâyou win.
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Stop the comparison game. Your story isnât supposed to look like hers. Comparison is the thief of joy (and the friend of mom guilt).
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Invite your kids into the mess. Baking with flour everywhere? Thatâs the stuff childhood dreams are made of.
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Rest without shame. Rested moms donât mean lazy moms. They mean strong moms.
âYour kids donât need a perfect momâthey need a present mom. And sometimes being present means choosing peace over Pinterest and grace over guilt.â
At the end of the day, mom guilt will try to steal your joy, but peace is waiting for you right in the middle of the Legos, snack crumbs, and half-drunk cups of coffee. The dream life isnât somewhere far awayâitâs already here, in the messy middle.

Should You Buy Before You Sell? Advice for Moms with Wild Kids in Tow
(Because We All Need a Little Real Talk in the Real Estate Game)
Alright, mama, youâve probably heard the question a million timesââShould I buy before I sell?â But with kids running wild, the thought of juggling both ends of the real estate spectrum sounds like a game of Tetris in a tornado. Trust me, I get it! As a mom, homesteader, and real estate pro, Iâm here to break it down in a way thatâs as fun as it is practical. So, letâs dive in and see if buying before you sell is the right move for you and your wild bunch!
The Perks of Buying Before You Sell
1. Beat the Competition
Mamas, if youâve found a house that feels like itâs âthe one,â donât wait for someone else to snatch it up. Buying before you sell lets you stay ahead of the market, especially when itâs hot and thereâs no time to waste. No need to risk losing your dream home while you wait for your current place to go under contract.
2. Move at Your Own Pace
Ever tried packing with kids in tow? Itâs like trying to herd cats. Buying before selling means you get to move in on your own timeline, not someone elseâs. You donât have to rush through showings or move into a temporary spot. Youâll be able to breathe easy as you settle into your new spaceâwithout packing up your kitchen for the third time this month.
3. Stability for the Little Ones
Hereâs the thing, moving with kids is no joke. Buying first means no hotel hopping, no staying with relatives, and no wondering âWhere are we going to sleep tonight?â Your kiddos will feel more secure knowing their new home is ready for them to walk into. Plus, less stress for you means more sanity for everyone.
The Downside: The “Uh-Oh” Moments
1. Double the Bills
Buying before selling sounds dreamy, but mama, double the mortgages means double the stress (and the bills). Unless youâve got a solid financial cushion, this could be a major headache. Keep in mind, until your home sells, youâll be juggling two payments, and if that doesnât sound like your idea of a good timeâwell, Iâm with you!
2. Two Properties, Twice the Trouble
Letâs paint the picture: Youâre dealing with two properties, two sets of schedules, and, if youâre anything like me, a house thatâs never “show-ready” with a toddler running around. If your current home is taking longer than expected to sell, youâll be sitting on a lot of extra weightâand Iâm not talking about the snacks you need to get through the day.
3. Chaos Factor = 100
Packing, selling, showing, and keeping your sanity while kids are either running around or glued to a screenâitâs enough to make you want to hide in the pantry with some chocolate (trust me, Iâve been there). Trying to balance it all can make your day feel like a circus, and not the fun kind. If this doesnât sound like your cup of tea, you might want to reconsider.
So, Should You Buy Before You Sell?
Hereâs the deal, mamaâthereâs no one-size-fits-all answer to this. If youâre financially ready to take on two homes and you donât mind a little extra chaos, buying before selling could be a good move. But, if youâre already feeling maxed out between carpooling, meal prep, and keeping up with that mountain of laundry, it might be better to sell first and avoid the extra stress.
Whatever you choose, trust yourself. As a mom whoâs doing it all, youâre more than capable of handling whatever comes your way. Whether you buy first or wait for the right buyer to come along, Iâm here to help guide you through every step of the process. After all, weâre all just doing the best we canâand thatâs the real win!
Got questions or need some advice? Drop a comment belowâIâd love to help you navigate this wild real estate ride!

Zoning Laws 101 for Homestead Dreamers (Without the Legal Headache)
đ Zoning Laws 101 for Homestead Dreamers (Without the Legal Headache) đĄ
By: Sam from ChickensCookiesClosings
Alright, friendâletâs talk zoning laws. (Wait! Donât click away!) I promise Iâm not about to launch into some soul-draining legal lecture that sounds like it was written by a robot whoâs never seen a tomato plant or heard a chicken cluck.
If you’re anything like meâsomeone who dreams of rows of veggies, the hum of bees, and backyard chickens with sass (lookinâ at you, Pickles)âyou may have bumped into this not-so-fun phrase: zoning laws. But donât worryâIâm here to break it down in plain English, with zero legalese and a healthy dose of humor. Let’s keep the dream alive and the city fines far, far away.
What Are Zoning Laws, Anyway?
Think of zoning laws as your townâs way of saying: âYou can do this here, but not that over there.â They decide what can and canât be built or done on a piece of landâlike whether you can raise chickens, sell homemade bread, or build a goat palace with chandeliers (hey, dream big).
Zoning helps keep neighborhoods organized, but it can also feel like a party pooper when you’re just trying to live that Little House on the Prairie life in a modern-day HOA.
Common Zoning Hiccups for Homesteaders
Here are a few things zoning laws might control:
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Animals: How many and what kind. Chickens? Maybe. Roosters? Maybe not (especially if your neighbors value sleep). Goats? That depends.
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Structures: Sheds, coops, greenhouses, or any new buildings usually need to play by size, placement, and sometimes color rules. Yeah… color. Ask me how I know.
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Home-Based Businesses: Want to sell eggs, sourdough, or the world’s best blackberry jam? Some areas are totally fine with it, and others want permits or have limits on signs, traffic, or customer visits.
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Gardening & Water Use: Surprisingly, even your garden might have rulesâlike how much of your yard can be used for growing or composting.
How to Homestead Without Getting the Boot
Donât panicâyou can still live the good life. You just gotta be a bit savvy:
1. Know Your Zone
Look up your propertyâs zoning designation with your city or county planning office. It’s often available online (or call and talk to a real humanâimagine that!).
2. Read the Fine Print
Zoning codes usually list whatâs allowed “by right” and what needs a permit. âBy rightâ means go for it! “Permit required” means: hold your goats and check in first.
3. Talk to a Planner
Local planning departments are full of folks who (believe it or not) want to help. Ask questions like:
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âCan I have chickens?â
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âCan I sell baked goods from home?â
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âWhatâs the deal with greenhouses?â
They may not serve coffee, but they usually donât bite.
4. Donât Assume Itâs a No
Sometimes all it takes is a little paperwork and a fee. Heck, you might even be able to request a âvarianceâ or get re-zoned in some cases. Zoning laws are just rules made by people. And guess what? Rules can change.
Tips for Staying Under the Radar (Legally)
Now, Iâm not telling you to go rogue, but if youâre doing small-scale stuff like keeping a few hens or selling cookies to friends, you can often fly under the radar just by being a good neighbor. Hereâs how:
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Keep things clean and quiet. No 4 a.m. rooster raves.
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Avoid big signs or public advertising unless youâre zoned for it.
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Share the bounty. Giving your neighbor fresh eggs can work wonders.
Final Thoughts from the Coop
Homesteading isnât just a hobbyâitâs a heart calling. But letâs keep those dreams alive and above board. Zoning laws might sound scary, but theyâre just another thing to learnâlike how to tell when your sourdough starter is ready or why chickens act like velociraptors when you bring them watermelon.
So, if you’re dreaming of a life filled with chickens, cookies, and closings (see what I did there?), take a little time to learn your local rules, ask questions, and plan smart. You donât have to give up the dreamâyou just have to work with the map youâve got.
And remember: always check local ordinances before building, selling, or raising anything with hooves or feathers. Iâm here for encouragement and clevernessânot legal advice. đ
Now go build that coop, plant that garden, and chase those homestead dreamsâjust maybe not with a llama… yet.
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